Tuesday, September 09, 2008

Just Do Something

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I once stopped behind several cars in an intersection. The winter weather was icy cold and a strong arctic wind blew relentlessly. Ahead
of me a young woman stood alongside the street rubbing her bare hands together and dancing in place to keep warm. Beside her rested a sign that read, "I have a baby and no food." She was obviously crying, likely from the pain of the cold wind.

Homeless and unemployed people are a common sight in many of our larger cities, and most motorists drive by without offering
assistance. They have no doubt been taught that giving money fosters a dependent lifestyle, or the ready cash may be used to purchase
alcohol or another substance rather than the food it was intended for. Like me, they may have been taught that one should give to a
local charity or through one's church, as these institutions can help those in need far more effectively.

This, of course, is true, but I am reminded of the college students who encountered a homeless man on the sidewalk. One of the students took a couple of dollars from his wallet and handed it to the unfortunate stranger. His friend commented, "Why did you do that? He's just going to spend it on booze or drugs." The student answered, "Yeah...like we're not!"

As I waited for the light to turn, I felt conflicted about that young woman. Whether or not I should give money, she was obviously in need. And whether or not she actually had a baby really didn't seem to matter. I gave up guessing people's motives and analyzing their
stories long ago. It was cold. She was cold. And she obviously felt she had to be there.

What should I do? Give her money? What was best? As I wrestled with these questions, the window rolled down from the car in front of me and a hand shot out holding a warm pair of gloves. The driver took her own gloves off and gave them to the shivering woman. I saw the young woman mouth the words "Thank you" as a broad smile lit up her face.

As I debated, somebody else helped. As I hesitated, somebody else acted. As I tried to decide the BEST way to assist, somebody else
just did what she could. As I did nothing, she did something. I made myself a pledge that day to always do SOMETHING.

Whether it is big or small, just do something. Something is almost always better than nothing!
Inspired Unknown Author

3 comments:

catholicandgop said...

Esther this is so beautiful, thanks for sharing. I reposted on my blog.

Marie said...

Thankyou Esther:)

This post really speaks to me. I remember when I was 17(not a Christian then) our next door neighbour had been unkind to my brother. A few weeks later as I walked past this neighbours house I had a sudden urge to drop in some money through her letter box. Well I began a debate within myself ie:" why should I give that woman money, when she had been mean to my brother"..."I work hard for my money, why should I care about her."...I decided NOT to give her any money. Two days later she was dead. She died from worry that she could not pay the rent on her house.

This is over 30 years ago but I have NOT forgotten that I did the wrong thing..My decision haunts me still...Now I listen to that still small voice that urges me to go beyond my limited self and to give selflessly.

The way of the fool seems right in his own eyes, but he who listens to advice is wise.
Anxiety in a man's heart depresses it, but a kindly word makes it glad. Proverbs 12:15 & 25.

Peace & much love to you

Marie xoxooxox

EC Gefroh said...

I'm happy to hear that Sunny.

Marie, how tragic!! Sometimes we have to learn lessons in life the hard way.

hugs,