Tuesday, January 29, 2008

If I Had My Child to Raise Again

Mother and Child
My son asked me to watch him play a game and I told him I was too busy doing something else. So what do I read over at Marie from View From the Pews?

If I had my child to raise all over again,

I'd build self-esteem first, and the house later.

I'd finger paint more, and point the finger less.

I'd would do less correcting and more connecting.

I'd take my eyes off my watch, and watch with my eyes.

I would care to know less and know to care more.

I'd take more hikes and fly more kites.

I'd stop playing serious, and seriously play.

I would run through more fields and gaze at more stars,

I'd do more hugging and less tugging.

I'd see the oak tree in the acorn more often,

I would be firm less often, and affirm much more.

I'd model less about the love of power,

And more about the power of love.

Diane Loomans


Well, see you later. I'm off to see my son play Portal and the cute Companion Cube.

2 comments:

Rosemary said...

Sweet post. May I take the message to heart.

EC Gefroh said...

I know what you mean Rosemary.